clearly at this point I already knew what the gist was, but he decided to email me recently to put it all in black and white. Remember, I haven't seen this guy since 2004...
His email: the following question might need some context and may seem forward - what are your feelings on casual sexual relationships?
My reply: Haha- overall they tend to be a good idea. I don't judge people for having them. Depends on the context though.
His reply: well, the context might be more fun over lunch. but here's the jist of things: I'm currently in an open relationship, so if you required attention of a intimate nature, after a lunch date, then I wouldn't hesitate to volunteer.
this is by no means the focus of us getting together - however, if it happened that an encounter such as this fit your a.) moral standings, b.) current relationship availability, and c.) time availability - it might be something to consider. knowing people's emotions towards to concept of open relationships is understandable. so if it didn't vibe well with your world view, then no pressure :)End scene.
Sooo in short if online dating or meeting my man in a coffee shop doesn't pan out I can always become a mistress apparently...with a man who lives in a different state. Come on 2012, work with me here!
If I wasn't in a relationship (for 17 years, married for 12), why the heck not? No strings? No pretenses? An obvious connection and trust - go get him, Tiger. and ENJOY!
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