tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8263865038340671774.post8243636083593257395..comments2023-03-25T23:06:09.547-07:00Comments on Why Won't He Say What You Want to Hear: Potential PullDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09553446998172625739noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8263865038340671774.post-65598420946718485402012-09-04T05:34:14.867-07:002012-09-04T05:34:14.867-07:00It's really hard to say, I feel your indecisio...It's really hard to say, I feel your indecision! I've been in a similar position before and have gone both ways on different occasions. Sometimes you say yes to to that outside date and it's the good thing for you, other times you say yes and it can damage something good you have going on. <br /><br />However...if you really feel an interest in going on the other date, I would consider it. I did it as a result of peer pressure from friends who wanted me to avoid getting into another automatic long term relationship. It cost me something good that I had going, and I still regret it. But I didn't do it because *I* wanted to...maybe that's where the difference lies. Trust your instincts!bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8263865038340671774.post-7569304361447827252012-09-03T22:05:30.834-07:002012-09-03T22:05:30.834-07:00Go on the date, see how it makes you feel about th...Go on the date, see how it makes you feel about the ex. The thing is, we are adults. There is no shame in asking like a grown up, this is where you're at, and if you want things to be different this time, you need to pull up the big girl pants and ask the tough questions. <br /><br />If he can't answer them, then you know where you stand and can get out early if need be. Seriously, if I hadn't asked my question, I would still be doing the same thing, wondering the same things you are wondering. <br /><br />If you really want commitment, ask for it. Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.com